Introduction: Here is some advice I gave my lil sis who dated this guy... She told him she wanted to keep things pretty casual (seeing that she just got out of a 6 year relationship). On one of their dates that they went on, she drove and her car got towed. He insisted he pay for the tow charge. Later when things started getting too serious, she told him she needed to take a few steps back. Bitter and what he thinks is a broken heart (after only a few months of dating) he insists she pays him back. He stalks her financial endeavors via facebook by keeping track of the places she check-ins so that he can call her out on all the money she spends instead of paying him for something that was never consensually agreed to be paid back.
Ohhhhhh man. This is ridiculous!
For starters, I like your word choice when responding to his request..."What a fair weather friend you turned out to be, and a tacky-ass one at that." NICEWORK sis.
Second, Yes, he is out of line. Reminds me of something (insert ex BF's name) would do. Bastard. He is just bitter that you don't like him anymore. Instead of trying to be content with being your friend, and trying to be mature, he is trying to make you hurt in any way he can... It seems immature, but I think you need to de-friend him on facebook. Other wise he is going to know all of your business.
Also, I honestly don't think I would pay him!! Its a life lesson he should learn. Not everything last forever, so next time he pays for something he should realize it he isn't buying your love. Tell him he was being a good friend and thank him. It would be in his best interest to let his balls drop, go through puberty, mature a little, and move the f*** on. Hearts get broken. That's what life is about. Girls break your heart, boys break your heart. Your cats dies... and your heart breaks. You get fired... your heart breaks, you change your plan of attack on life.. and yes your heart breaks again. NOWHERE is there a signed contract when dating someone that says it is going to last forever. And nowhere is there a contract that says he would loan you money and you would pay him back. So him putting this 'payment plan' on you and monitoring how you spend your money is a joke.
I would ignore him and try to cut him out of your life as much as possible. You have grown more mentally, financially and emotionally than most 22 year year olds. So he can f*** himself. He is just trying to jab you where you are most sensitive. Just have confidence in your self and remind yourself you are not a bad person no matter what he says.
Keep on Keepin on. I love you!!!!
Sincerely,
Don't mess with my little sister or I'll kick your ass
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